Here are four ways to get rid of them for good:
1. Block them
If they are always reaching out to your through phones calls/texts or the social media, block them. Make sure you seal any avenues they might use to get to you.
2. Warn your friends and family members
Some exes come through your family members and your friends. Let them know that you don’t want anything to do with your ex. Your ex might even destroy the friendship you have with your family and friends by telling lies. Ask them to block them too.
3. Never respond
Sometimes the best medicine to stubborn exes is keeping quiet. Don’t respond to any of their calls, texts, emails or insults. This is the best tactic to keep them away.
4. Go easy on social media
Even after blocking your ex, they can still come back with fake accounts. If you realize that your ex is getting to you through this tactics, stop posting or commenting on social media for a while.
This is how both partners can fight for their love: 1. By leaving room to discussion: always create space so that your partner will be able to discuss with you when a problem arises. Do not create cocoons around yourselves.
2. Understand that you both need each other: no partner has more value than the other. You should both know that a woman has her importance in the relationship, the same as the husband.
Each has an important role to play
3. Pain and hurt is something both of you may experience: sometimes you may find yourselves hurting each other but this won’t last, rather, it is temporal. It won’t last.
4. Shield yourselves from bad influence: one of the ways of fighting for your love is to stay away from bad influence which might ruin your love. Among these would be ladies who want to steal your man, ladies who always tell you negative sides of him and so on. The same for the man, he should stay away from bad influence of men who want to steal his woman and those who want to harm her.
Thus, protecting each other should be a goal that both partners should pursue.
Here are things that should not feel forced in healthy relationships :
1. Shared interests
Partners in a healthy relationship should have similar interests or hobbies. They should be happy to participate in doing things not because they want to please their partners but because they love doing these things.
2. Physical touch
Partners in a healthy relationship should always feel attracted to each other. Physical touch should be a natural thing even when they are in public as a show of love and affection. Your partner should not be afraid to hold your hand, lean on your shoulder or even hug you.
3. Respect at all times
Respect is an important factor in relationships. This should not be forced. Respect applies in all aspects of life with your partner. From respecting them, their views, their choices among other things.
4. Spend time together
Partners in healthy relationships spend time together. All of you should be willing and ready to spend every single free time you have together. Spending time together makes them happy and they enjoy every moment of it.
**THE TWO THINGS IN LIFE* Take Notes
***The Two Things In Life***
*”Two things that have no benefit;*
1. Love without sacrifice
2. Marriage without love
*Two things that entrench love;*
1. Good habits
*Two things that destroy a man;*
1. Living a fake life
2. Lack of focus
*Two things that destroy a woman;*
1. Love for materialism
2. Imitation or comparison
*Two things that destroy friendship;*
2. Back biting or distrust
*Two things that enhance charisma;*
2. Steadfastness in serving God.
*Two things that bring about misery;*
1. Disrespect for elders
2. False accusation
*Two things that bring about happiness;*
1. Doing good deeds
*Two things that bring one close to God;*
1. Reading&Studying the Word of GOD
2. Abiding by GOD’s instructions
*Two things that make devil to keep away
1. Be God fearing
2. Avoiding selfishness
*Two things that aid answers to prayers;*
*Two things that God loves;*
2. Winning souls
*Two reasons why I sent this message to
1. Because you are God’s image
2. Because God loves you
*Two things I want you to do after you
1. Use, work and adhere to this message
2. Send the message to your family and
‘God Bless You.’
The perfect relationship can be defined in multiple ways. All in all, it must have all that any partner may want in it. But how, really, do you get into that perfect relationship? Well, here is what you shall do.
1. Never want those who don’t want you
Love is always two-way. That is the only way it can be said to exist. Two individuals have to open up to each other and offer their all. When you chase people who do not want you or simply do not want to be caught, you may spend an entire lifetime without ever knowing what true love is. If they are not willing to fall in love, with you, that is not the place you will find true love. Better look for it elsewhere.
2. Plan your future
To find that true love, you have to be sure with everything. When together, you do not figure out how your foreseeable future ‘should’ be; you plan how it ‘will’ be and work towards that. Never give the allowance of failure if you are to find what you really want.
3. Be the ultimate prize
If you are not to be taken for granted, make sure everyone knows you are not that cheap. They should go through a struggle to get to you and be thankful for that. Don’t just be lukewarm at all times. Choose one side and stick to it. Let them know you’re principled.
7 Texts You’re Sending That Are Ruining Your Relationships
Here are the 7 biggest offenders.
1. ANSWERING ONLY ONE QUESTION OF MANY THAT WERE ASKED
Is there anything more annoying than asking several questions of someone and only getting an answer to one? Sure, sometimes it’s a simple oversight, but if you’re truly engaged in the conversation and reading the messages you receive thoroughly, you should catch the error and answer promptly. A whopping 40% of survey respondents expressed annoyance with those who don’t.
2. SENDING TOO MANY MESSAGES
Another classic. While double texting isn’t the end of the world, 35% of people say that getting too many messages in a row is a major turn-off. We all have lives and are very busy, so sending text after text before the recipient has had a chance to read and respond isn’t just annoying, it comes off as a bit desperate.
3. SENDING CORNY SELFIES
It’s tempting to send the person you’re dating some sexy snapshots, but there is such a thing as trying too hard—and 34% of people say cheesy selfies can totally change the way they view someone they thought they were previously attracted to. If you’re asked for a pic and you feel comfortable sending one, by all means do, but maybe save the duck lips or the FaceTuned shots for your camera roll.
4. TAKING FOREVER TO REPLY
It’s not hard to understand why 33% of people find it maddening to have to wait forever to get a reply to a text they’ve sent. Again, while everyone understands how busy our lives can be, it’s rude not to message back , even if it’s just to say that you’re having a hectic day and will get back ASAP. Playing games is for kids, so be an adult and text back in a timely manner.
5. OVERUSING EMOJIS
Using emojis to spice up conversation can be fun with our BFFs, but 39% of people say using too many—the poo face and the eggplant being the worst offenders—is not a good look. If you’re using emojis in place of actual words, there’s a serious problem. Keep their use to a minimum for maximum effect.
6. POOR GRAMMAR, SPELLING, AND PUNCTUATION
You don’t have to be an Ivy League scholar with expert level knowledge of the AP Style Guide, but 32% of people really aren’t into dating someone who can’t at least construct a grammatically proper sentence. Shorthand typing may be quicker, especially when you’re in a hurry, but knowing the difference between “there” and “their” could make all the difference in your dating life.
7. USING OBNOXIOUS PET NAMES LIKE “BAE”
Nope, it’s not cute—28% of people really aren’t into being called “bae,” “babe,” or any other cheesy term of endearment you come up with. Learn how to read the room, so to speak—if your texting partner doesn’t talk like that, maybe you shouldn’t either (at least until you’re actually coupled up and this becomes a lovable quirk rather than a cringe-worthy turn-off).
How to make your lover trust you even if you are not trustworthy
In any relationship, there must be a disappointment. Rekindling your love after a fight depends on the trust created in the relationship. If you trust your partner, you will find a reason to forgive a wrong and forget it since you will be convinced the same will not be repeated.
In many broken relationships, lack of trust has been the engine triggering the breakup. Others simply dump their partners because they cannot trust them. Creating trust needs one to know what chemistry is behind the creation of trust which breeds faithfulness:
Keep your promises
Once you leave some promises unfulfilled, it kills your partner’s trust. He/she can not depend on you. Also do not make promises that you cannot keep. Any promise that is kept, is a building block of trust no matter how cheap it is.
Do not judge your partner
Once in a while a partner can confide in you. Tell you his/her miseries. Tell you about the mistakes made. Do not be judgemental. Do not make a mistake of blaming him/her. Try hard to be in the shoes of your partner and suggest possible solutions.
Once you agree on maybe meeting somewhere in town, try hard and be there on time if not in time. In case you delay in the jam, inform your partner and say the cause of being late. Do not lie!
Take your partner’s side always
Even if your partner is the one wrong in a row between him/her and a friend, do not say how wrong your partner is. Be on his/her side till in privacy where you can say how wrong he/she was.
Show your partner, all your flaws
Let your partner understand your weaknesses and accept you the way you are. Do not complicate yourself. This will create trust in your relationship.
Say the truth always
For instance, you cheated on your partner, tell her/him the truth. Lies becomes termites to your relationship. They devour your love slowly, when realising it, the effect is already felt through lose of love. Try to be real. This is a package of trust in your relationship
Here are 5 signs your girlfriend is faithful
1. She shares with you her secrets
A faithful woman never hides anything from you. She will share all her secrets with you. She does not feel like keeping anything from you. She will tell things she has never told anyone else
2. She always wants to talk
A faithful woman always wants to talk or interact with you. She will always respect you. Any time she is free, she wants to talk to you. This shows deep connection.
2. She introduces you to the people close to her
Do you know the people close to her? If she introduces you to her family and friends know she is the one. She is not afraid of associating with you in any way.
3. She prioritizes the relationship
A faithful woman puts the relationship first. She is not ready to let anything come between the two of you. She will do everything to keep the love.
4. She freely comments and shares you social media posts
She will be all over you social media accounts. She comments on your posts and shares them. She also feels good when you comment on hers.
5. She does everything to impress you
A faithful woman gives her best. She will do all she can to impress you. The woman will ensure she does not hurt you in any way.
One of the most difficult questions men face during their dating period is how to identify and spot the right woman. The one who would be everything they want, so they don’t fall wrongly, and end up with regret.
There’s really no textbook rule to spotting or finding which woman is right, but there are signs that may suggest so. Due to the very deceptive nature of humans, it’s easy to fall for someone’s gimmick, but that may be avoidable if you’re careful enough.
You just need to watch out for the following signs…
You’ve probably got a lot of women who you think do this one thing for you, so I’m sure you’re thinking this can’t be a way out of your confusion. But the truth is there are those who pretend to listen or at least, do it at their convenience, and there are those who do so when you do not even need them to.
A woman who can find time from her very tight schedule to be with you and hear you talk about your fears and insecurities is by a mile ahead of every other.
We all have a problem, so it’s literally difficult to be happy always, but it’s possible to find the good in every situation, and be happy. Happiness is infectious. Just by being around a happy person, you too can be happy.
A happy woman is one who is eager to share some of it, and help lift someone from gloom. It also means that she’s comfortable and content with her life no matter how wrong it seems.
SHE’S PROUD OF HERSELF
There’s a difference between being proud of oneself, and being arrogant. When you’re proud of yourself, you’re confident in your abilities and capabilities. It means you have very little insecurities, and that is an important ingredient for a successful relationship. You don’t want a woman who is always looking to bring others down because to her, it would up her worth. You don’t want a woman who will feel intimidated by every other woman that you’re around.
SILENCE IS NOT A SPACE TO BE FILLED
Sometimes you know that you are really comfortable with silence when you can be comfortably quiet with someone. Find a girl that can stand being peacefully quiet with you just for the sake of chilling. A girl can detect the moment when you want to be quiet. And once she starts blabbering about something unimportant, that means she is not quite comfortable with you. This is a great and simple experiment to figure out if she is the perfect girlfriend.
SHE ACCEPTS YOUR FLAWS
As annoying as they are, we all have them. You can’t run away from a flawed human because you’ll just end up with another one. You just try to find someone who you can manage their issues. So when you find a woman who is ready and willing to be with you despite your faults and flaws, she might be the one.
Wife: Hmm where exactly are we going? Besides am kind of busy today.
Husband: Stop whatever you are doing and prepare yourself for our special date.
Wife: Alright Love.
Husband: Sharp, I will be there in 30 minutes time.
Wife: Ok, bye.
Husband: Cool(he dropped the call)
In 30 minutes time he arrived at home as per promise.
Husband: Anybody home??? (Knock! Knock! Knock).
Wife: (peeps through the window) Lowani(come in).
Husband: Baby what’s wrong with you? You haven’t prepared yourself yet?
Wife: Of course, not until you tell me where exactly you are planning on taking me.
Husband: What’s the date today?
Wife: 30th of January.
Husband: Great! Today is my pay day besides I got a salary increment, so I want to go and spoil you big time. Now hurry up go and take a quick bath.
Wife: No my love, am going nowhere with you.
Husband: What does that suppose to mean?
Wife: My love, I know you love me, but that
shouldn’t be reason for you to be spending extravagantly on me.
Husband: what is wrong with that? You are my woman,my first love,mother my children and I have all the right to spoil you rotten.
Wife: My love, last time I checked your young brother was chased from school because of unpaid balance. You know you are the only one your family depends on. That house your mother lives in, is in a dilapidated state and it needs to be
Husband: (listening attentively)
Wife: Instead of spoiling me, use your salary to support those that entirely depend on you for their well being. To me those people comes first, moreover I don’t love you because of your money, I love you for who you are.
Husband: But bae……….
Wife: (cuts in) But bae nothing, now hurry up and go and pay the school fees for your brother and help other in serious need as much as your salary can support. If they will be any amount remaining, you can come and share it
with me. I see a husband in you not a bank account.
Husband: (tears drop) What more can I ask from God? He has blessed me with a wonderful woman.I Love you so so much my wife, you are one in a million. I see a true and genuine wife in you not a slut or the so called Slay Queens of our generation.
Wife: I love you too my husband.
Husband: Come here (he spread his arms for the hug)They shared a warmth hug…and the Husband sat with the wife to plan how they could spend the money wisely in an effort to help those in genuine need of their help.
Now That’s Real Love
The Question is:
*DO SUCH WIVES STILL EXIST IN AFRICA?*
*If you are a woman reading this message,how do you evaluate yourself? What are you doing about becoming a better wife that your husband will constantly desire to consult from even in serious decision making.*
Be wise my dear reader and do the right thing.Be a wife with a difference.
6 SIGNS THE WOMAN YOU ARE WITH IS YOUR FUTURE WIFE
When it comes to marriage, it’s important we make the right decisions as it’s so easy for everything to go wrong if we get married to the wrong person for the wrong reasons. These signs would help every man trying to choose the right wife. It’s important that you know the final decision to marry that lady is on you but these signs would make the process a bit easy for you.
Below are the signs
1. SHE IS PROUD OF YOU
If she is so proud of you and brags about you when she is with her friends, co-workers etc, then she might just be the woman you need to marry. If she thinks you the best man any woman can have, then that should help you decide.
2. SHE IS COOL WITH YOUR FRIENDS
A man’s friends are an important part of his world and every man wants a woman that understands his friends are also important to him. If she is genuinely interested in how your friends are doing and she loves hanging out with you and your friends, then that should help you decide.
3. SHE HAS HER OWN LIFE
When she understands everything doesn’t need to be about you and she also understands you two would function best when she has her own things and you have yours. She understands she has to help you achieve your dreams while also achieving her own dreams, then that should help you decide.
4. YOU MISS HER WHEN SHE ISN’T WITH YOU
When she isn’t with you, you just can’t help but think of her. She seems to have a way of creeping into your thoughts no matter how hard you try not to think of her. When you feel this way, then that should help you decide.
5. YOU MAKE SACRIFICES FOR EACH OTHER
If your woman can’t make sacrifices for you and you can’t also do same for her, then I don’t think you should be marrying her. For any marriage to work, sacrifices must be taken. So if she makes sacrifices for you and you do same for her, then that should help you decide.
6. SHE IS YOUR NUMBER ONE FAN
She is always there for you in tough situations and she never seems to leave you alone in difficult times. She believes in you and your dreams even when everyone won’t believe in them. Even in the most difficult moments, she always believes you can make it through the storm. If you think she is your number one fan, then that should help you decide.
These signs should help decide if she is the one you should spend the rest of your life with. One thing you should know is this, that decision isn’t one any man should make in a hurry.
1. SHE NO LONGER GETS AFFECTED BY YOUR ACTS
At this point, she no longer cares about what you do anymore; her feelings become dead to your acts; nothing moves her. Winning her back at this stage is as hard as watching the minutes hand on a clock all day long. Men should never allow their ladies feel this way about them. However, some men still don’t know that at this stage they have lost her; they are so short-sighted.
2. SHE EASILY BECOMES IRRITATED TOWARDS YOU
This is even worse than the previous one; at this stage, she becomes irritated towards everything that you do. They feel better when they are alone than with you. They even feel a huge relief whenever you are out of sight. At this stage, they are just waiting for the perfect moment to leave that relationship; though in their minds, they have left already.
3. SHE EASILY GETS ANGRY
This is the product of sign number two. When you are irritated about someone, you easily get angry. At this stage, everything the man does will provoke her. Trust me when I say, you don’t want to know the insults that she’s pouring on you in her mind. Guys, don’t act surprised when your lady starts getting angry easily. That is an anger that’s been piling for a very long time and it just reached its climax, so she looks for every opportunity to vent the anger on you.
4. SHE DOESN’T DO THINGS SHE NORMALLY DOES
This is only normal when she’s tired of that relationship. She stops doing things she normally does or maybe she gradually reduces the things she does for you. That’s just a huge sign that she’s tired of the relationship; she doesn’t feel any vibe and doesn’t see the need to do stuffs for you anymore.
5. I LOVE YOU BECOMES HARD TO SAY
She no longer finds it easy telling you she loves you; well that’s because she doesn’t. She even feels guilt when she says she loves you, because deep down, she doesn’t. Even the few times she says it, it would be quite obvious that it isn’t genuine. But on a general note, when she’s tired of you, she doesn’t deem it fit to tell you that she loves you.
6. SHE BECOMES ABSENT MINDED
This is also another huge sign that it’s all over to her. She barely listens to you, she doesn’t flow in conversations anymore, her mind is like a wood, she’s there but she isn’t there. She feels emotionally distant from you at this point; your deeds and talks sound so distant to her. So many ladies can testify of having this feeling with a guy they no longer care about.
7. SHE DOESN’T FIND YOU INTERESTING ANYMORE
I guess this is the worst thing that can happen to any man in a relationship; when his lady doesn’t find him interesting anymore. It’s easier to get a lady than regaining your lady when she feels this way about you. She prefers being with other people than with you; she doesn’t have any affection anymore and it becomes obvious.
So now you know it; 7 signs that a woman is tired of a relationship. I only have one advice for the men out there; never let it reach this stage; especially when you have got a good woman. Always make that love last.
Men get easily tired of a relationship; sometimes it’s not because they want to but because their lady do things that leave them frustrated. Women sometimes are unaware of the fact that certain characters they exhibit would only push their man off the relationship.
One sure thing about a man getting tired of a relationship is that it gradually happens; it builds slowly till the man can’t take it anymore. When a man becomes tired of his lady, he easily gets tired of being with her and hardly anything she does would be pleasing to him.
Alright ladies, it’s time to step into a man’s shoes, know how he thinks and what he hates so you can salvage your relationship.
You would hardly see a man who wouldn’t get tired of a woman that nags. Nagging is the most irritating character any woman can possess. Any woman that nags would definitely find it hard to keep a man. Nagging would gradually push your man out of the house, probably to bars, pubs and even other women.
No man would love to be compared to another man and surprisingly ladies always use this to take a dig at their man. Comparisons are quite frustrating and it passes a message that you think the other man is better than your man. Constantly comparing your man to others would kill the feelings he has for you.
3. BEING UNAPPRECIATIVE
Many women only appreciate big things and complain about or not appreciate the little things her man does. Complains and not being appreciative go hand in hand and this can make a man tired of a woman; if you appreciate a man for what he does, he would see you as an angel but if you don’t, he wouldn’t hesitate to deem you expendable.
4. WHEN YOU BECOME TOO CLINGY
Sometimes you need to let your man know your worth; being too clingy is a sign of a woman that’s too dependent on a man. Sometimes men need their space and when you are too clingy, it could just be frustrating.
5. NOT UNDERSTANDING
When a woman doesn’t understand her man it can make the relationship rocky. Men love it when their partner is understanding; a woman who doesn’t understand her man would criticise his every action and this can gradually turn love to hate.
6. TOO BUSY FOR YOUR MAN
Men hate it when a woman is too clingy and they also hate when a woman is too busy; creating a balance between both would keep your man on track. A Reddit user complained of how her husband did a spread sheet of the number of times she refused having sex with him; it was clear that the disgruntled husband got frustrated that his wife was just too busy for him; create time for your man else it might lead to so many unwarranted problems.
7. BEING BOSSY
Only few men would stand a bossy woman. A bossy woman does what she wants and also wants her man to do only what she wants. Most women with this trait don’t even know they have it, they try to subdue their man without knowing and this can get him tired of her. There should always be the balance between what a man wants and what a woman wants and only understanding can make that happen; a bossy woman doesn’t understand her man.
Like I pointed out earlier, when a man is tired of a woman, he would get easily frustrated at her and hardly anything she does would be pleasing to him.
Ladies, take note.
Breaking up with someone you love is the hardest thing to do. Men are known to hurt those they love when they decide to move out of the relationship because of one reason or another.
Here are the most respectful and proper ways to dump her without hurting her emotions:
1. Do it in person
This is a person you still care about and you do not want to hurt, meet her and tell her face to face. It’s not only mature but also shows that your decision is serious.
If you have the courage to face her at this time, he will find no reasons to chase you in future.
2. Be honest
Provide a genuine reason as to why you are parting ways with her. Parting ways is not an excuse to lay false accusations against her. She will be glad to know that you still value her and sincere with her.
3. Appreciate her
Show gratitude for the good times you had with her. Even if you encountered some difficult moments in your relationship, thank her for being there for you and let her know that she can still count on you as a friend.
Apologize for the breakup and anything wrong you did. Make sure you apologize for any action that might have hurt her emotions.
5. Encourage her
Encourage and give her hope that she still has an opportunity to find someone better in the future. She might not take it lightly that you are breaking up with her. Calm her down and make him understand why you are breaking up with her.
I’ll start by stating this categorically- there are no perfect humans.
We are all imperfect beings and can always make mistakes and get blinded to our own faults either by nurture, nature or prejudice.
So before you can be quick to judge a person or your boyfriend, in this instance, you should at-least try to talk to them and understand where they’re coming from.
That being said, there are some obvious bad behaviors that a lady should be on the lookout for whenever you plan on dating a certain special someone of choice. Here are the tell tale signs that he’s a bad boyfriend from the onset:
1. He doesn’t appreciate you
Someone who takes you and your kind gestures for granted should raise a red flag. Expecting you to play nice all the time without reciprocating is quite unfair.
2. Too busy for you
If he doesn’t have time for you yet he makes time for his various extracurricular activities then you shouldn’t bet on that horse.
3. He’s closed off emotionally
Somebody who has no interest whatsoever in talking about his feelings or your future plans together isn’t staying for the long haul.
4. You feel suffocated around him
Someone who’s controlling and manipulative, always restricting you on how to leave your life and bossing over you, is not the best person to be in a relationship with.
5. He’s selfish and egotistic
If your conversations always revolve around him and his problems with little or no regard about your life, feelings or problems then he isn’t the best fit.
6. A batterer and abuser
Whether physical or emotional- nobody should endure any sort of abuse, especially from their partners. Men with anger issues should be avoided at all costs.
7. He doesn’t care about your family or social circle
A guy who is really committed to your relationship will make an effort to know and impress your family and friends. Your friends and family should also feel at least moderately okay about him.
8. He’s over-jealous and clingy
A guy who doesn’t trust you and tries to own and control your being and existence isn’t the right guy to date. He has to admit that you’re both independent individuals who have a life outside the relationship.
There are perceptions that relationship destroyers are mammoth factors that arise along the way but this is not always the case.
Sometimes, there are little issues which leade to separation. In any relationship, each partner comes with their unique beliefs and expectations; it’s the couple’s job to ensure that they thrive in the long run and are able to solve any differences that arise.
These are the implicit relationship killers:
1. Illogical expectations
Some unrealistic expectations are capable of turning a healthy relationship in the opposite direction. They bring frustrations to you and your partner and end up dipping you into emotional and physical troubles. They shut down relationship goals.
This is a toxin that comes out in different forms: unmet promises, infidelity, intentional stinginess among other things. Once a partner feels deceived, they will experience bitterness, frustrations and stressful conditions that ruin long-term relationships.
3. Detrimental perceptions
This diverts one’s mind to only see their partner’s wrongdoings and weaknesses. Blame games directed to the partner start arising. These beliefs disregard the factual reality of things about their partners.
4. Hiding your true feelings
Any relationship requires honest communication to thrive. Hiding your true feelings is very traumatic and suppressive to your emotions. This leads to marital dissatisfaction hence attachment to your partner becomes a problem.
Are you planning to walk down the aisle?
Finding a perfect partner is not easy.
Many people end up living with the wrong person because they never took their time .
Not all men out there make good husbands.
If your guy doesn’t have these 4 qualities, don’t marry him:
1. Honesty and trustworthiness
A good man is one who gives you a peace of mind.
He is always truthful in everything he says and does.
2. Family oriented
A man who is ready to settle down values the family.
If he is not family oriented then something is wrong somewhere.
Only get married to a man who is ready to have a family.
3. Financial planning skills
Money matters can make or break your marriage.
If he lacks the financial skills then there are chances you will find yourself in debts.
Marry a man who understands the financial dynamics.
This makes it easier to live a happier life when you get married.
Women want men who appreciate them.
If he does not appreciate you then think twice.
Appreciation motivates the woman to do better things in life.
Most of the time dating strong girls who have been alone in the past seem difficult. Here is what to note before dating them.
1. She’s strong. You might even be intimidated by her a bit.
2. She’s been weak in the past. If there’s one thing her past has taught her, it’s she’ll never again let someone treat her badly or knock her without getting up and fighting.
3. She doesn’t need you…She might come across like she doesn’t need anyone and she might push you away, the truth is the only person she’s learned she can rely on is herself.
4. But she wants you. Consider it a compliment if a strong girl likes you, she’s selective in who she chooses because she knows what she deserves and doesn’t settle.
5. She wants to trust you…Strong girls are ones who were built from the bad things that have happened in the past. She wants to believe you have good intentions.
6. But she trusts herself more. But she’ll always be skeptical until you prove yourself.
7. She’ll hate herself for breaking down…If there’s one thing she’s good at is hiding moments of weakness. But in time, you’ll see her fall a bit. When she’s in tears crying it will be then you have to hold her and be her strength.
8. But you’ll love her more for it. She looks at herself as weak in those moments and will apologize. But you’ll look at her as human and fall in love with her.
9. She’s driven…She’s always been someone career and goal oriented and often puts those things before relationships.
10. And will motivate you…She’ll make you want to do more and be a better version of yourself. She’ll make you want to be the best man you can be because you’re standing next to her.
11. She believes in herself…She doesn’t take no for an answer. When it comes to achieving things, she’ll always find a way.
12. And she’ll believe in you. Even if she’s the only one in your corner, if you tell her you want to do something, she’ll help you get there. That’ll be important later when the big things come along and you want to take risks. She’ll have your back and will always be loyal.
13. She’s not looking for you to have it all together…It’s okay if you’re still figuring out your life and what you want. Chances are she’s figuring it out also.
14. She’s willing to be a part of your struggle…If there’s one thing strong girls know about are success stories first start with failing.
15. So you come out together on top. Building a successful life together and loving the person next to you is her main goal in all of this.
Men, have you ever noticed that sometimes you really like a girl but getting her has been your worst nightmare? If yes, then it means you probably are among the following types of guys:
1. “I don’t want to ruin our friendship” guy
There is this group of guys who will hang around a girl, everyone will think that they are dating but the truth is that they are just friends. This might be right at times but it is wrong when you as a man you are suffering from your feelings just because you fear if you tell her the friendship that the two of you are having will be ruined. Don’t be this type of a guy, be bold enough and tell her, she might be yours just that instant.
2. “I will wait until they break up” guy
Let me tell you that you might wait until you see her posting on her Facebook wall that the wedding is in August. I don’t know how you will feel but, it will be the worst news you have ever heard especially if you love her so deeply. In fact, it is bad manners to sit there and wish other people broke up so that you could benefit. Instead of wasting time, look for another special girl who will love you.
3. “She is my bestie” guy
In fact, these are the funniest guys. I remember I was friends with a girl, we were so close, so my friends knew that she was mine. They had many expectations, you understand how your crew can be right? So when I told them that she was just my friend, they in fact “banished” me from the squad because I was “wasting time’. Do not be this type of a guy, stop wasting time and tell her what you are feeling.